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Depression to Enthusiasm and a Bright Future
Michael Blair • May 19, 2020
From Death Loss Depression to A Bright Medical Career Future…How the Spin Release Replace Made It Happen and Can Help You Too.
So, in walks this slumping, depressed looking, reticent, low energy young 17 year old female sent by her father to get some help. She almost refuses to talk at first and finally shares a story of seeing her mother die in front of her due to complications of childbirth several years ago and reports that she instantly became the mother to the younger siblings and has no hope of any future college and career or long term relationship until the children are grown or dad finds a replacement mother… and that he tried once and that created another loss and put her back in the saddle after a lot of pain and suffering by all of them. Then she shares the story of an entangled friendship with a suicidal female friend and how she became wrapped up in trying to rescue her and sank further into depression along the way. So together over many weeks we gradually worked with an almost weekly Spin Release Replace to Gift process until she came free from all losses except her mother of origin and that process I will describe for you here as best can be done without you doing it yourself.
So the trigger is represented by a visual of mom’s dying on the floor in front of her at 12 years of age. The recognized feelings of sadness and depression were present and she could feel them with her memory. I asked her to imagine that she could pull the feelings which were felt in her heart and head out of her body into the middle of the room we were sitting in. When I asked her to give me the shape and color of the feelings she identified a red heart symbol. She then identified the current spin direction of the image and then reversed the spin at high speed upon request. When the spin had gone on long enough she followed the direction to explode the feeling and spinning symbol. She blew away the residual dust and looked for healing gifts in the form of symbols or feelings that would replace the exploded negative charge and she discovered Happiness, Gratitude and Calm. These feelings were then breathed into the body through her heart and head with three or more deep breaths until they were integrated and woven into the fabric of her being head to toe and front to back…into every area and aspect of her being. When that was done I tested her by having her now think of her mom and what came up was a smiley face of her Mom and a collection of sweet memories instead of the sadness and depression. She appeared happy now at the thought of her mom. Then she was asked to go to her earliest memory as a child and go and be with that child and help her breath in or download these just installed gifts which she did quite effortlessly and speedily and without hesitation. Then she took the child’s hand and walked her one year at a time up her time line till at the present and invited the child to integrate fully into her. She breathed a deep sigh at that point and then shifted her focus to the future out five years noticing the difference these resources will have made in her life and she returned to the present to look a the bright future ahead.
She expressed almost euphoria at the prospects of her bright future breaking away from the family and joyfully attending college and medical school to work eventually in a NICI unit in a hospital…with newborn infants. Her face lit up at this prospect and it was so cool to have been with her to see her transformation completed in such a powerful way. From traumatized and wounded and over responsible and hopeless and depressed young girl to a vibrant, determined, excited, enthusiastic and powerfully focused young woman. What a powerful transformation and what a powerful healing process… the timeline spin release and replace process.
This represents one of hundreds of amazing transformational moments I have experienced with young children all the way to seniors….this is joy and fun and thrilling to be a part of. Once again, you have to experience it first hand to really get the value and it is nice to hear a success story along the way. Call for you own personal directed spin release and replace experience so this can be a consistent part of your bright future development.
Written by
Michael Evan Blair, LMFT
Has a Masters Degree from BYU is in Child Development and Family Relations, and I am licensed in Utah as a Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I can provide all the mental health services that any clinician with a masters’ degree is legally allowed to provide. Because I am a 25-year veteran experienced master practitioner in NLP, Neuro Linguistic Programming, I also legitimately provide coaching outside of my state licensure as a specialist in emotional pain relief and reprogramming.
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